Privacy in Chosen — What Your Partner Sees

Privacy in Chosen — What Your Partner Sees

You want to know exactly what stays yours and what becomes shared. That question matters, and the answer shapes whether you can be fully honest in your check-ins.

The Absolute Guarantee

Your individual check-in entries are never visible to your partner. Not if they have your password. Not if they contact UVettd support. The privacy is built into the architecture — it cannot be overridden.

This isn't a policy that could change with a settings toggle. Your individual entries are processed to identify shared patterns, and then they remain in your account only. Your partner receives the output of that process — a combined qualitative report — not the input. The inputs are yours, permanently.

What Your Partner Can See

Your partner sees one thing from your check-in: their contribution to the combined qualitative report. That report reflects patterns found across both entries — not a summary of what you wrote, not your individual ratings, not anything you selected or typed as an individual. It is a synthesis, not a transcript.

• Individual entries: never shared
• Individual ratings or scores: never shared
• Your coaching chat with Yvette: completely private — your partner cannot see it, and UVettd staff cannot share it with your partner
• Combined report: visible to both partners — this is what you share
• Sunday Presence Synthesis: visible to both partners — shows patterns found across both partners' separate Presence entries, never the entries themselves

Why This Privacy Design Matters

If you knew your partner would read exactly what you wrote, you'd soften it. You'd choose safer words. You'd skip the thing that's actually bothering you because you don't want it to land wrong. That self-censorship would make your check-ins less honest — and less useful.

The privacy is what makes the data honest. When both partners can write freely, the patterns that emerge in the combined report are real. That's where the value lives: in what you both independently noticed, not in a curated version of what you thought was safe to say.

Your Coaching Chat with Yvette

Yvette, your AI coach, is available for individual reflection from within Chosen. Anything you discuss with Yvette in your private coaching chat is yours alone. Your partner has no access to it — not the questions you ask, not the insights you explore, not the history of the conversation. This is true even if your partner is in the same room and looking at your screen through the shared Chosen tab; individual coaching chats are only accessible from the individual partner's account.

The Sunday Presence Synthesis

The Sunday Presence Synthesis finds patterns across both partners' separate Presence journal entries — and it does so without ever revealing what either of you wrote. Your partner sees the same synthesis you see: a shared strength, a theme worth exploring, and a conversation starter. Neither of you sees the other's entries. This is never an exception.

Common questions about this topic

Can my partner read what I wrote in my check-in?

No. Your individual check-in entries are never visible to your partner. Only the combined qualitative report is shared, and that report reflects patterns found across both entries — it is not a summary or a quote of what you wrote.

What if I want to share my entries with my partner?

If you'd like your partner to know what's on your mind, the best path is a conversation — or choosing to use the "Discuss Together" coaching option in the combined report, where both of you are present. There is no in-app feature to share individual entries with your partner, because the privacy architecture is intentional and foundational to how Chosen works.

Does UVettd staff see our check-ins?

UVettd staff have no routine access to the content of your check-in entries. In rare cases where technical support requires it, access is governed by our privacy policy and requires documented justification. Staff would never share one partner's entries with the other partner under any circumstances.

What if my partner guesses what I wrote based on the combined report?

The combined report is intentionally written at the pattern level — it identifies themes, not sources. It cannot be reverse-engineered into individual entries. If both partners flagged the same area, that becomes a shared theme; which partner raised it first is not indicated.

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