Evaluating a Prospect with Yvette

Evaluating a Prospect with Yvette

The goal of a Vetted evaluation is straightforward: you tell Yvette what you've actually observed, and she helps you figure out what it means — measured against your values, not a generic compatibility standard. This is not a quiz or a scoring form. It's a conversation.

Who Is Yvette?

Yvette is the AI coach inside Vetted. She's designed to ask good follow-up questions, help you distinguish between observation and interpretation, and build a structured CAMERA Method™ Report from the raw material you bring her. She's warm and direct — she won't validate wishful thinking, and she won't catastrophize a single bad text. Her job is to help you see clearly.

The Observation Loop — What to Tell Yvette

The most useful observations follow a simple structure: what you saw or heard, what you expected or hoped for, and what the gap was (if any). You don't need to format it that way — Yvette will help you shape the observation — but that's the underlying logic she's working with.

For example: "He said he'd text me after his meeting Tuesday. It's Thursday and he hasn't mentioned it." That's an observation. Yvette will ask follow-up questions: Has this happened before? Did he acknowledge it later? How did he explain it? Each answer adds evidence to the Consistency dimension of your CAMERA Method™ Report.

You don't need to diagnose the behavior before bringing it to Yvette. Bring the raw event. She's built to help you process it from there.

Yvette works from your observations — what you saw, heard, or experienced. Describe what happened in your own words. The more specific your observation, the more accurate her analysis.

How Observations Accumulate Into CAMERA Method™ Scores

Each observation you bring to Yvette contributes evidence to one or more of the 6 CAMERA dimensions: Consistency, Accountability, Mutuality, Emotional Regulation, Respect & Boundaries, and Alignment. A single conversation doesn't generate a reliable score — but a pattern of observations across multiple interactions does.

Early reports will show a Low Evidence confidence badge on some dimensions. That's not a problem — it's accurate. As you log more observations, evidence builds, confidence levels rise, and the composite score becomes more meaningful. Yvette will tell you which dimensions still have thin evidence, so you know what to pay attention to in upcoming interactions.

What Yvette Asks as Follow-Up Questions

Yvette is trained to probe for behavioral specificity. She'll ask things like: "When he apologized, did he name what he did wrong or focus on explaining the circumstances?" or "Has she asked about your work situation since you mentioned the stress?" These questions aren't interrogative — they're designed to pull out the detail that actually tells you something.

If a follow-up doesn't apply to your situation, you can skip it or tell Yvette it's not relevant. She'll adjust. The conversation is meant to feel like talking to someone who's genuinely paying attention — not filling out a form.

When to Log Observations

After dates, after significant message exchanges, after phone or video calls, after moments that gave you a strong feeling — good or uncomfortable. You don't need to log every interaction. Log the ones that felt meaningful, surprising, or worth thinking about. Those are the ones that contain signal.

Common questions about this topic

How many observations do I need before getting a reliable score?

There's no fixed number — it depends on the richness of each observation and how many CAMERA dimensions they touch. Most users have a Medium Evidence rating across most dimensions after 4–6 substantive observations. Yvette will always show you the current evidence level so you can gauge it yourself.

What if I don't know all 6 CAMERA dimensions yet?

You don't need to know them to use Vetted. Just describe what happened. Yvette handles the mapping to CAMERA dimensions automatically. If you want to understand what each dimension means, the article "What Do the 6 CAMERA Dimensions Mean?" in this knowledge base covers them in plain English with behavioral examples.

Can I have evaluations running for multiple prospects at the same time?

Yes. Each prospect has their own separate evaluation thread and CAMERA Method™ Report. Switching between prospects doesn't affect either person's score. UVettd ClearRank lets you compare across all active prospects once evaluations are underway.

Can I upload dating app screenshots?

Yvette works from your observations rather than screenshots from third-party apps. Describe what happened in your own words — the more specific your observation, the more accurate her analysis.

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